Regret is a powerful emotion that can break and cause you to lose all your confidence from within. But once you learn to control and overcome your pain and regret, you will see that this world can be a great place to live .
How to overcome the regret
While going through a mystery novel , frayed , I stopped a little ‘ to reflect the bit I was reading. No, it was a sandwich steaming and rolling out the boy hero and the lead chick , nor was a nail biting scene in which the killer was revealed .
It was a scenario in which a friend of regret hit when his wife leaves him , for his habit of getting drunk , drowning in alcohol and finally dies. Before his death , in a typical old-fashioned novel enough , apologizes to his ex- wife. Ex – wife, who was still in love with her husband drunk regrets his move and “understands” that if she would not have been moved out of the house , her husband died .
Why is it important , considering it was only a side- plot of a boring novel I was reading. It was boring. Should I put the novel back in the attic, instead of wasting four hours of that book. I’m sorry I spent my precious time in this book , when there were 1 million other things I could do instead. You’ve been there, is not it? At that point, when you do something and you wish he had not . We all feel that . And we all just hope that Turner magic moment so we were able to erase and rewrite our history. So we come to the pimple of emotion here , great regret .
What have complained lately?
I’m sorry that you are not able to spend time with your spouse ?
Are you sorry that you do not deal well with your children?
Are you sorry that you are not doing justice to your work?
I’m sorry that you forgot the birthday of your best friend ?
Are you sorry that your dog died of neglect ?
Do you mind that behaved badly at the party last night , where he drank like a fish ?
It can be one of these, or anything else. But regret is inevitable.
A very strong statement to make, I do not know . But tell me , have you ever seen a person who has never ever regretted any of their moves.
A dead past
” Many of us are crucified between two thieves , regret for the past and fear of the future . ” – Fulton Oursler
Regret symbolizes the negative memories . The word ‘ regret ‘ is derived from the old French word ‘ regreter ‘ , which means ” cry the dead.” Of all the negative emotions , regret is one of the most difficult to untangle as regret is, by definition , the actions of the past that we can not change . The underlying factor is that regret can not change the past, we just have to keep our minds stuck in the past. Mourning is one of the main reasons we are .