Have you spent sleepless nights thinking about the guy you like . I liked a boy. I miss him too . But I learned some lessons that can help .
I miss missing
Have you ever wondered why some people get over their ex or crushed faster than the other?
I’ve always been one that takes a long time to overcome every guy I like .
I took a couple of guys a bit ‘ dated. But I still remember all of them with great affection .
I still remember fondly my first crush from years ago.
Maybe I like the idea of love and missing someone .
Or maybe I’m just a sucker for love and memories.
My last “relationship” with a guy who really loved it taught me a few things , though, and really helped me cope with this dilemma of missing children that somehow I have never lost again.
The story that taught me a few lessons
Three years ago, I was in a long term relationship with a guy . The report was not really anywhere, and everything that had just come to a standstill.
Around the same time , I met a great guy at my place of work.
He had a big crush on me , and I liked flirting with him at work .
But as the weeks turn into months , I found myself enjoying a lot more with this friend at work my boyfriend .
One thing led to another and a drunken night , I ended up having one too many drinks when I was out with my friend for work and ended up kissing him.
One kiss led to another in the coming weeks and a few months later, we were making love to his place every night. Soon , I was really in love with my friend . In fact, I was crazy about him . Broke up with my boyfriend of seven years and happily jumped into a blissfully happy relationship with my friend .
A year into the relationship, and we were not only compatible with each other. Now that I brought it home , began to act aloof and wants to avoid me all the time. I was paralyzed and made me feel neglected and unloved . And to make matters worse , he told me that he needed some space away from me for a couple of months around the time of our first anniversary .
I ‘m more after the break
Respect his point of view , but I really missed him a lot when he was not around. I called a couple of times a week. At times , it was warm and mellow . Most of the time, it was rude and abrupt . Other times, he would not respond to my call and do not call me back .
Whenever gotten soft or I told him that he was missing , he would get angry and shoot me for not getting to the point that it was no longer in love with me and the space needed to figure out what he really wanted me.
I used to email him long letters miss- you – and – love-you only get a short answer , a sudden line .
The songs dedicated to him and created the playlist for him and emailed the list. He did not respond .
Finally, after months of tear -stained pillows and lonely nights staring at the walls and empty glasses , I decided to go ahead .
I ‘m in love with someone else. But I still missed him . I lost so much evil.
I have spent the last year the lack of it. I also broke up with my boyfriend again hoping it would work my lover back to me . It ‘ was really painful – kind of love . He was the guy who pursued me for a year and convinced me to discontinue my long-term relationship to be with him .
And now , everything was so different.
One morning I woke up and just knew I had to keep going. It ‘ was easier than I thought, once made up my mind . Surprisingly , I was called a couple of months later, when I was ignoring him .
Life is funny and ironic . But it is only ironic if you see it that way.
I lost it . I wanted it . I could not have it.
I passed my love for him. And in a few months, I was waiting for.
Do you miss your ex or that once you’ve loved?
Sometimes , we all feel hurt and miserable. We miss someone so much that over time , forget all that really matters. We forget because we are missing a special person.
You may want to call the guy you like , you can meet him or you might even want to get back with him. But he wants the same thing?
But even beyond this , what you really want ?
What should you do when you lose a guy
It ‘ easy to lose a guy who loved me once . It ‘ easy to think of affection for a guy who once had a crush on you . But to understand what to do when you lose a guy is never easy . You know the right thing to do, but just can not do it. I would not mind crawling toward him if he shows only a sign. It is offensive and demeaning , but you’re helpless.
Here are some things that you should remember when you lose a guy .
# Call if you need to . But see how it behaves with you. He speaks well ? They are an insult to call him ? He also disturbs returning the call after a few days , or is it a love story is a completely ?
# Speak your mind . Say the heart once, but no more. His brain remember things, even if you think you have to constantly remind you of your feelings for him. Constantly calling him and telling him how much he misses , you’re doing it just make things worse for you.
# Define your relationship. It ‘ easy to forget the real reason behind why are you still in love with him , how time flies past. What do you want from this guy ? Need him or need someone to love you?
# Are you really looking for? You know I love you. Do you know who is playing with you. You know that you are using to be nice or mean when he wants to . But still missing . I’m really trying to move forward, or to keep her thoughts in your head, because you like to think and mull over him ?
# Do not harass him . It feels good to chase the sickly boy who gets lost on Facebook or in real life. But in reality, you’re only going to feel worse . Stop snooping around in his life. Walk and prevent.
# Remember that you can not force someone to love you back. You can try a couple of times, but no matter how you push someone to love you, will never happen. If you are away from you , no matter how much he misses , is not going to come back to you , if you do not want .
# To have self-respect. Although she has forced arm and twisted him in meetings is never more would you be happy? Here’s how you want to find the love of your life? No self-respecting woman will put up with a guy who throws around like a rag doll .
How does that guy have the strength to go on?
Have you ever wondered how easy it is for the guy to move even while you’re still losing ? Well , I was wondering too . But I remembered how easily I walked from my relationship of seven years, because I found love elsewhere. What you need is a distraction when you lose a guy . Here are some reasons why it may seem stronger.
# You may be weaker. Yes, it’s true. He may find it easier to pass because it has more determined and focused on movement. Will never go out until they convince you that moving is the only option.
# Met someone else who has filled that void. Just as I did. Sometimes, a rebound relationship is the best way to overcome the misery of missing someone that I really loved.
# If one can keep busy . Regardless of whether you find love or not, the easiest way to stop missing the guy you love is to keep you occupied. Remember the truth , he does not care about you. I’ll give you strength.
Losing ‘ , but it strengthens
He is strengthened in your misery and pain. We know that losing him, so he does not need you. When no longer needed , there is a good chance that they will try to get in touch with you , just as has happened in my life.
We lack only the things that matter , after it has gone. Miss ‘ , because he’s gone. And unfortunately for you, you will never lose until you lose it completely.
How to lose somebody the right way
You must not forget that. You can keep it in a special place in your heart. But keep it locked and not allow it to interfere with other aspects of your life. And in a few days of solitude , thinking about him or the special moments you shared and move on. After all, if it has moved , so can you. Thinking about an ex is not a bad thing. But put your life on hold is definitely .