You can not imagine how many times I heard the cry of women with throbbing pain above for granted after being in an unhealthy relationship , financially supporting an estranged lover and sat. I have seen the results first hand of women walking around with broken hearts and empty wallets as a result of giving too much and not getting enough in return. In anguish reflected , ” I do not understand what went wrong . I gave everything I had . How could she have walked out on me after I took care of him ? ”
What is extremely unfortunate and sad in these cases, women feel they have to earn the love of a man. I do not think that you are able or worthy to be loved, simply because of who they are , then try to get the love of what they can give – in this case it is their hard-earned money .
Keep in mind, I am not referring to a healthy bickering relationship where you help each other along the way. I’m talking about love lopsided , unbalanced , where the woman is the meal ticket for the type of guy who just sits around and plan how to get paid to always borrow money from you and not pay , or getting ” in -between” jobs, but never really work . L ‘ intriguing gigolo gives unsuspecting women and men a decent name a rotten rotten game . This practice is more common than you can image. Many seekers of modern – day macho openly admit : “Why should I sweat in a nine to five job when I can get a ‘ treasure ‘ to dish out some money? ”
To give you a deeper understanding and to ensure that they are never fooled to pay for love , I interviewed 300 hundred women to find out what led her to pay for the presence of a man in their life. Keep in mind, some of the women interviewed were abandoned by men who have maintained in the past, and others are currently in relationships with men who support them financially. I received an interesting range of answers, but I have them organized into four categories . Each of these personality types or secretly or openly persuaded the women to use the funding to maintain his romance :
1. Boy cover. He is incredibly beautiful. It ‘ also referred to as a ” good guy .” She is swept away by her look exceptionally good. She enjoys the admiration of other women who give on him and feels that it is a prize to be won . In this case, she keeps it because it looks good on his arm – is his trophy .
2 . The lover boy . This personality type is usually a ” Romeo ” roaming . ” He is a man in the true sense of the word. He is very charming and smooth. ‘s No secret that many women , but wants to be a woman who he meets or reforms in monogamy. This gives . Sense of being number one and have the advantage over the other in this case , she keeps it because it feels special to be able to pull it away from other women – is his ego booster .
3 . The joy boy . If you looked in the dictionary under ” sex appeal ” , you should find this piece described in the paragraph . He owns a sensual and natural animal magnetism . He is clean but rugged, rude but seductive. It ‘ a heady mix of fire and ice – with a fascinating sexual attraction that offers you “come here.” In this case, because she keeps him sexually satisfy him – is his sexual object .
4 . The toy boy . He is much younger than her. He feels privileged because with all the young women out there who have chosen to stay with her. In most cases , women have had to work hard all my life and have never had the chance to enjoy his youth. It makes you feel as if you are doing it for what they have lost in the beginning . You will hear back rejuvenated , vibrant and youthful . In this case, she keeps it because it helps to regain his youth – he is the fountain of youth .
If you are in an unhealthy relationship “pay to play” , where you allowed yourself to be used as an ATM to a Gigolo , just stop deluding ourselves that everything is hunky dory . It will not be when the “piece – y ” out ” port – y” and leave you broke , alone, and I’m sorry. Every time you have to pay a good man , no matter how thin the payment, something is wrong. Take stock of themselves and a high value on yourself. Realizing that you deserve to have a compassionate and friendly man who thinks well of you looking out for your best interest – rather than one that tries to squeeze your finances like an orange in a centrifuge. Losing the user and choose a champion because you deserve a healthy relationship !