Do you think chivalry is dead and buried forever? The way that most men behave and have expectations these days , it’s probably all gone forever.
chivalry is dead
For most men , this is glorious news.
And for most women, this is just another title that proves that fairytales do not exist .
Thus died the cavalry ? Really?
Cavalry is a funny thing .
It ‘ complicated and confusing , and even those who understand , and romance can make life a lot better.
As an American woman , I know how strong and fiercely men more Americans try to chokehold cavalry .
Most men will go out of their way to try to be a little chivalry .
In fact , I’ve seen guys who have held a door open for me and I suddenly realize how chivalrous you are doing and leave the door in his face while muttering an apology chivalry low to be the first!
Well, this may not be a common scenario throughout the world by English gentlemen , but for Americans , certainly cavalry is forced into a slow death.
Dating a chivalrous little boy
In one of my meetings stint , I started dating a guy that looked more like a feminist . He said he wanted the women to be treated as equals with men, and he always tried to make women feel just as strong as men. I liked that thought.
But in reality what he was saying was that it was a chivalrous gentleman . I found out later .
Now I do not expect a guy to run a busy street and open the car door for me. And certainly do not expect them to treat me like a king.
But I expect basic courtesy like holding a door open , pulling out a chair for me, if he is close and little things like that.
I liked this guy at first , but every time I saw another guy who was better with the corner of his girlfriend, I found myself sinking down in my seat or curl your toes in embarrassment. I do not like the way I was writing . I wanted to feel appreciated and loved , respected and cared for and my boyfriend who prefer to treat me as an equal, I would do none of these things .
Men want everything the easy way
It ‘s true . Men definitely want everything as simple as possible. They do not like trying hard , and once again , do not respect anything that is easily obtained .
If a woman expects a guy to be chivalrous , the guy thinks that she is expecting too much. But what most people do not realize is that the horse can be a great way to impress a girl while showing their good side, at the same time .
Because the horse is good for both sexes ?
Women like to feel protected . Men like protection .
It is the natural instinct. A girl feels better on a date where the guy that stays with you take care of her and she makes you feel protected. And a guy feels good about himself when the girl who stays with him depends for its security and happiness.
While most men hate the whole act of chivalry, I do not understand is that they are doing the whole dating experience much less romantic and fun way to diminish or completely kill Cavalry .
Women who lower their standard
As women jumping from one bad guy to another , they begin to wonder if all those fabulous novels that they hear are all lies. And more often than not , most women are actually giving up their Fables and fall in love with any combination of numbers that gives her attention.
Marge may be in love with Homer Simpson, but seriously, do not you think that would be happier with another guy ? She is likely to stop any hope of cavalry in his life.
This is what happens to many women. Start lowering their standards and go ahead with any guy who shows her attention. These guys are expecting then all women who are easy to get and annoyed when a woman expects that treat you with respect. And so, the life and death of the cavalry began a whole new cycle of confusion between the two sexes .
But women who give in easily and put up with a guy and its shortcomings are never truly happy anyway. Just learn to subdue their real expectations until another knight in shining armor walking in front of them , or until you see another couple who seem to be blissfully happy in the arms of another .
Cavalry and play hard to get
Chivalry is also deeply engraved in the rules of the game difficult to achieve. Women play hard to get, men show their chivalrous side . And when both sexes feel they played their parts and find someone worthy , love comes into the picture. But recently, as a woman , I have seen men who are very hostile when a woman expects a man to woo her .
If a guy has all the money in the world and wants to buy a car , you might try some cars and choose the one that you feel is worth more . So if a woman plays hard to get , play hard to get the tests a couple of guys for their chivalry and chooses the best one out there , is it really that bad? Several guys have commented back in that place called names Natasha and branding her as a bad girl . But in reality , men , why is it so bad for a woman who will be spoiled for choice , whether she is worthy of attention ?
If a girl is attractive and good enough to get any guy she wants , and she gets the attention of many men, it’s bad for you to choose the best man out of the bag as he chases her ?
It seems that men can do what they feel like , but women should not be allowed to have only choices. It is not something that feels wrong?
When a man acts gallantly with a woman, show the woman who respects and cares enough to treat her like a lady. And in return , the woman falls in love with a man. This is the beauty of chivalry and play hard to get . And guess what ‘ , it worked!
The two types of men
There are two types of men all over the world . The men who pursue women cavalierly and get better. And men who are killing even chivalrous .
The best men who are always the most beautiful women and beautiful to date are not as fortunate . Just know how to treat a woman. If a woman is expected to be pursued , these men are chivalrous and grace win her heart .
On the other hand , men who do everything they can to avoid being chivalrous , final bitter and angry. They hire men and women play makeup games . They go out of their way to be disrespectful to women and at some point of time , a woman who is given on its standard romantic and treat him like shit until she resigned to a life of sadness or leaves him for someone better .
Chivalry is dead only if you let die
Ladies , keep your standards and believe in your fairy tale love story . Men, learn how to be chivalrous and caring for the woman you are dating.
The cavalry may be a tendency to die, but you die only for the unhappy lovers . The evolution has taught us enough to know that the cavalry and playing hard to get works like a well oiled machine .
Up to men their game and behave like gentlemen , women will start to behave like ladies around them. And with great chivalry , respect and love in the air , love will be a much better experience for all of us .