Today I met ten years ago.
She is an adrenaline junky and I was confident a homebody quiet , they were a couple who seems completely ridiculous to others outside, but completely right everywhere.
When we met he felt completely every detail right. The conversation flowed so well … We talked about his past and mine, shared a few laughs and we could not believe what we saw in each other .
As I walked toward his car was constantly thinking that this was the woman for me and that I need you in my life … No matter what . Later I found out that I was thinking the same thing.
We continued to see each other , but we have grown too much, too fast and did things become impossible , we knew little else and she was not ready for a relationship and be with me just because they want one.
Completely focused on creating a relationship at the wrong time , rather than live in the moment and just enjoying . We both had to back up .
Months went by , until you get to me with a phone call asking if you want to meet her for lunch. I was still completely insane on every detail of her when we met, but this time, we were a bit ‘ more suspicious of one another. Our meeting also still around at the time, but still feel completely overwhelmed us. The question, ” because it seems that life is telling me to stay with this person? This is the person for me and how can I be sure?”
This time , we were a lot more loose and become much closer , but I still had a good time . We tried to push, which led to a fight that evil there is. We believed that we could be only two who can not feel like jumping into a relationship, but also can not be purely friends because there are always feelings involved .
When I lost , I was devastated, but she always gave me new ideas for ways to enjoy life . So I became active . I started to work harder , mountain biking, football / basketball / softball , rowing, I also started to enjoy wakeboarding ! Because I thought it was gone forever , I have done these things for me and unwittingly became an adrenaline junkie myself !
It took months of this and called me out of the blue , asking how I did it. We talked for hours, how could we ever . He could not believe it when I asked her out in the boat with me , instead of lunch to meet . Adventure after adventure , we realized how perfect we were always on the other . We are completely in love with this time and he never ceased to have adventures. Two years later , me the happiest man in the world did I say yes to being my wife. It ‘ amazing to me how life can bring people together. We’ve been around the world , laugh , love and live anything the world has to offer. I found my best friend, my soul mate .
Remember to keep their eyes / open heart , because life always I will let you know when the opportunity arises . God, life , the universe … Something we got together and we never gave up , only to find that there was always a plan behind it.
My wife asked me to publish our story to share with the world. Thank you so much for reading!